Even if you don't think you want a private lesson at all, consider this: each season, all of us instructors are required to take two full days of ski instructor lesson/coaching...from other top instructors. Almost every skier could use an early-season technique tune-up, even instructors. If you take one lesson early in season, you'll likely enjoy the rest of season more.
My biggest point here is this: most ski areas have lots of ski instructors, many are good, some
There are ways to find a hugely talented ski instructor, here's some of them:
1. Wherever you're going to ski this season, find a friend who's been there, and gotten lessons for his/her kids. Ask if the kids improved a lot and if they loved their instructor's approach. If answer is yes, get that person's name.
2. Visit the resort now, in the fall during Columbus Day weekend/leaf peeping time/ or just as a weekend away. While there, whatever shops or restaurants you visit, be bold: ask the server or salesperson if they know a super-talented instructor: and don't stop there, ask also for the instructor's name & how to contact the person, be pushy in a friendly way. Ski towns are small towns, and everybody knows everybody. And the best instructors are not necessarily locals, but it's a great bet some of them are. Get a name and mobile number. And do this in every commercial establishment you visit. The locals know who the best instructors are. Back at home, do some google searching, LinkedIn searches, Facebook etc.
3. Work your network at home. Parents will be protective of their favorite instructor, so ask them to ask their favorite instructor: "WHO WOULD YOU RECOMMEND - I DON'T WANT TO GIVE THEM YOUR NAME (haha! - the instructor will get the humor and likely will have a friend whom she/he respects talent-wise.
4. Restaurants are particularly useful because the locals go there, especially if they're open in the off-season, and everybody talks.
5. If you've got a couple kids who could use lessons, put that info out there also.
6. Reality check: ski instructors love to ski & the best ones love to teach, but all ski resorts pay low wages. So tips are a primary way that good/great instructors get paid. Do that.
7. Boldest suggestion: if you visit resort before ski season, walk to the ski school building, knock, walk in & ask anyone there if they'll give you a specific name of a great instructor.
8. Last, but very important: people who've done this for a season or two all know this: private lessons get booked quickly. There's a finite supply and when everyone's booked, then it's simply not possible to get a private lesson. So book lessons early.