You can ensure there's no repeat of this ban in future years -- "Since we're going to be at home for the 4th this year, I invited (list 12-20 people) over for a cookout. Let me know if there's something I can do to help out."We are usually camping somewhere off grid but this year we'll be leaving on the 7th for points north. I've been told that going camping on the 4th would be too close to leaving on our big summer trip.