Yeah, but that's not really the point. There are all kinds of ways African Americans (and other non-whites) get discriminated against in this country by others and are left feeling unwelcome. I don't know about anyone else but if I were stared at and heard jokes made about me and my family or ignored by clerks or waiters or followed around the ski/pro shop you would probably not feel too good about coming back. I've literally seen all of these things first hand skiing and golfing with some black friends in the DC area which is incredibly diverse. It hurts
I think you need to find a different place to live then because it sounds like a very racist area. Not sure where you go that people "stare" at someone of different color but I travel the country with my work and don't find people staring at other people. When I am in a ski shop or a store and there are people of different color I don't hear anyone telling jokes about them. I've never seen someone ignored by a clerk because of color. I understand there are racist people in this country of all colors but this exaggerating bullshit needs to stop because it just divides people. Racism should be dealt with, but continually airing 1 bad incident out of a million good ones does nothing for this country. Please tell us which ski shop followed people of color around so we can email them our complaints.
I dunno, I'm not black, but I'm not white, and I've had this experience in almost every state in the US. There's a lot of "othering". You get used to it. Doesn't make it okay. In recreational pursuits, I've experienced this in ski shops, on the hill in USSA and PSIA clinics, being involved in USSA and FIS races of all levels up to NorAms, at tennis clubs/shops/tournaments, in golf clubhouses, pro shops, and on the course, in specialty and big box shops for hiking/backpacking/camping, among others.
Is it because of my race? I don't know. But many times more than one I've had people be "surprised" I speak English. So .... there's that.
My wife (who also is not white) and I have had a hard time getting people's attention in many places of business, especially where the pricetags tend to be higher (and you need assistance to actually buy anything. We have a hard time getting people to show us more expensive things in furniture stores, home improvement stores, car dealerships, etc. Most try steer us towards less expensive shops and less expensive options. I can't be 100% that it's race-based, but, we're dressed as well as anyone else and we've only lived in relatively wealthy areas, so ... you tell me. We get followed around a lot in specialty realtors where you pick your items and bring to a cashier, even when we repeatedly let staff know we don't need assistance. I've been in these same stores with my white friends, with the same employees, and at the same level of business (often on the same day), and the difference is jarring.