Our now 32 year old daughter has always lived in ski country, or has for the past 16 years.
Her first car was a Subie H6 Outback, purchased with 45K miles, when she got her license. Drove it through college and one more year, to 160K miles. She loved it.
Second car was an Outback XT. Bought it used with about 65K, and dove it to about 135K. Loved that one as well. Only sold it when some serious expenses were on the horizon. {New Turbo, steering rack, shocks, bushings, brake calipers, and on and on, etc.}. She got a ridiculous trade in with it in a hot Subie market.
Third was an Alltrack. LOVED that car as well. Had no issues that were not covered by warranty. She bought it new, at the right time. She had tried to find a six speed and could not at the time. Bought it new. At 20K miles, her transmission died and a new one arrived in a wooden crate to replace it, all on VWOA. That car hit 45K miles in the spring. No other issues.
She would still have it, but she had the chance to buy a family member's mint, very low mileage, fully service booked, perfect A4 Allroad. Not suggesting that as a "kid car." At the same time, she got absolute top dollar selling the Alltrack. That is now a kid car in....Aspen.
She has driven the Allroad from Boston to CO, back to Boston, and then back to Aspen and returned to bring it to Maine since she's owned it. Who needs to fly? Great car.
I'd consider an Alltrack, with a warranty. I would consider a Tuguan. I would seriously look at an Outback. AND....my winner might well be a Honda CRV. Have three HS and college age nieces who drive them. Great vehicles. Pretty neat. They have come a long way. And super "easy and reliable."
Probably goes without saying, but snow tires, IMO are a must. My daughter has had 16 years of Hakka's.
I will not tell you what our son's second and third cars were. His first was a used Ford Ranger. 50mph felt like 100. Perfect. After that......
Alltrack. Tiguan. Outback. CRV. My suggestions.
Another great value, and a bit bigger is a Toyota Venza. They are a lot of car for the money. Also should mention the Lexus RX series. Incredibly reliable used car. Even the first generation!
EDIT: Sorry, was focusing on the kid car, not the family duty! Maybe the Tiguan.....