This is David Polaner. I've just joined the board after Trish sent a link to this thread. I don't have the time to go through a response to every post but a couple of things I will respond to. I think that Trish will also be posting an update of my old post from EpicSki on altitude adaptation.
First, palokona (if I am correct in assuming that you are from the Denver area)- you should see a physician at the altitude and travel medicine clinic at Univ. of Colorado. I know several of the physicians there, and can send you some names if you pm me. You don't say how high your hemoglobin is, but unless you have Chronic Mountain Sickness (unusual in people living continuously at less than 12,000ft, so not seen much outside the Andes) I don’t think that is likely to be the answer. You give an important piece of information, though, that you have a PFO. There is very good evidence that people with PFO are at increased risk of acute mountain sickness, and are worse at acclimatizing. The best paper explaining this is by Andy Lovering and full text is
here. I worked with these guys on the AltitudeOmics expedition and they are first rate scientists. This may be at the root, or at least a major contributor to your problem, and if indicated that can be repaired in the cath lab without surgery. You can certainly try and contact Peter Hackett, who is indeed one of the foremost altitude physicians in the world, but Peter lives on the Western Slope so you probably won't be able to see him in person. I think that you need to be seen formally as a patient. Your little experiment with the oxygen concentrator might have meant something, because hypoxia does both increase intrapulmonary shunt (the amount of blood that bypasses the air sacs in the lungs where blood picks up oxygen) and also increases the blood pressure in the lung's circulation, which then shunts more blood across that patent foramen ovale so it never goes through the lungs in the first place. That will increase what is called venous admixture- the amount of unoxygenated blood that flows to the systemic circulation.
Re: the little cans of oxygen- they are really not effective because the oxygen is only in your lungs for seconds- that will raise your oxygen saturation but only help while you are breathing it (well, for a little while longer, but less than a minute). A waste of money better spent on more gear or high grade chocolate.
The comment that James made about genetics is spot on (unfortunately for my friends and colleagues Rob Roach and Coleen Julian, however, not Nobel material yet!) There are absolutely genetic mechanisms behind the ease or difficulty to acclimatization to altitude, and there are specific polymorphisms (gene variants) that are associated with good adaptation. There are even genetic differences that result in different adaptive mechanisms in highland natives in the Andes and Tibet. Anyone who wants a technical paper that summarizes a lot of what is known can look
here.
Hope this is some help.
David